These are the five elements whose love lives are fraught with hardship… | Five Elements Ranking

Hello everyone (๑╹◡╹)ﾉ This is your 35th meeting with Huoyun.

I recently rewatched “Goodbye My Princess,” and I have to say, Li Chengyin is truly a scumbag, but Chen Xingxu is undeniably handsome (drooling).

Ahem, in short, the angst got me a bit hooked, so Mimi and I decided to discuss it this time:

The top 3 elements with the most bumpy love lives!

P.S.: This content is for entertainment and reference only. If it offends any mosquitoes, please forgive me. ><

People born under the Jia Wood element are actually less likely to be love-obsessed, as they are generally goal-oriented and somewhat self-centered.

They are born to achieve great things, and are very likely to produce domineering male or female CEOs, like Wu Zetian.
However, if a Jia Wood person is indeed love-obsessed, it will be an exceptionally extreme case. Their feelings are deeply ingrained, bordering on obsessive.

They are prone to being unable to move on after a breakup, experiencing exceptionally long periods of being single, or finding themselves attracted to people who are similar to their former love interest…

A key reason why people with the Jia Wood element often experience difficulties in their love lives is their inability to accept a loss of control. They need to be dominant in any relationship, controlling the entire pace, which can easily create a sense of pressure for their partner.

Therefore, the most unfortunate thing for Jia Wood people is falling for a highly independent partner. While deeply attracted to their partner’s excellent and independent qualities, they also want to completely protect and control them.

This kind of relationship is prone to collapse later on, as the partner’s personality is really difficult to manage… Therefore, Jia Wood people have a high probability of being dumped, and it takes them a long time to recover.

It’s still recommended that Jia Wood people find someone with a gentler nature who can accommodate them. However, one good thing about Jia Wood people is that they can still gain some positive experience from each relationship, which is why they rank third.

People with the Xin Metal element in their birth chart tend to encounter many obstacles in their love life, which can sometimes seem perplexing.

Generally, Xin Metal people are quite well-off, often possessing a combination of good family background, personal qualities, and good looks.

After all, Xin Metal itself represents jewelry—naturally good, precious, and desirable.

So why is their love life so fraught with difficulties?

Firstly, due to the reserved and aristocratic nature of jewelry, they often have a touch of pride and can be somewhat picky and demanding.

Furthermore, because they have many good options in relationships (after all, those who want to buy jewelry are generally well-off), Xin Metal people are prone to the following attitudes in relationships:

① I must be worthy of the best; in relationships, I must “win.”

② If you’re not good enough, I’ll just move on to the next one; I don’t lack suitors.

The first point easily leads to remaining single from birth, because jewelry can sometimes be expensive and unavailable—they simply can’t afford it! This can also easily trigger a crisis of self-esteem. For example, in romantic relationships, if the other person doesn’t choose Xin Jin but chooses someone else, Xin Jin will suffer a blow to their self-esteem, potentially leading to social withdrawal. Secondly, it can easily cause Xin Jin to constantly change partners, becoming overly capricious in relationships.

They might still not find a suitable partner as the years go by, or even break up a relationship after settling down, like a jewel covered in dust.

In most cases, those with a troubled love life are mostly women born under the Ding Fire element. Of course, men also experience hardships, but it’s usually others who suffer those hardships…

The Ding fire represents a candle flame. The light from a burning candle isn’t very bright, but the shadows it casts are quite ambiguous… making it easy for people to have all sorts of fantasies…
Therefore, people born under the Ding Fire element are inherently more emotional and tend to see value in what they do, like Jack Ma of Alibaba.

At the same time, because of the flickering candlelight, Ding Fire tends to view others through a filter.

Especially women born under the Ding Fire element! Once they fall in love, they really like to make amends for their partner.

An outsider might see this person as worthless, but a Ding Fire Woman can see their strengths and hardships from unique perspectives.

And so, this relationship remained entangled and complicated.

Well, it’s because the Ding Fire element is too focused on “spiritual experience,” yearning to create beautiful memories together with their partner, and they themselves are giving types of people.

Therefore, there is a high probability that in relationships, the Ding Fire element will spoil their partner. The more they give, the more accustomed the other person becomes, and the less they know how to be grateful and cherish them.

Furthermore, Ding Fire individuals tend to prioritize spiritual connection in relationships, often neglecting practical considerations. This makes them prone to unrealistic, “castles in the air” romances.

Once this is discovered, the emotional fall is like a rapid descent from a drop tower, leaving deep emotional wounds. The feeling of “burning out like a candle until its wax is gone” arises.